How can I commit to something I don't know what it is?
I understand with you the dilemmas of trying to decide! Its trying!
de-cision means to cut away, in-cision means to cut into .
In-decision means we are divided from ourselves and represents for me part of the overall 'delay' of life that wakes us up at night and turns into pain.
The more we are embodied, the better we are at making trusted decisions.
The majority of people have come to see me over the last 28 years have come for a series of sessions and it is these that have emerged with profound changes in their lives feeling gratitude and relief.
I understand the leap of faith it takes to be committed to growth and braving what might feel overwhelming right now. Its an investment that actually costs less in the long run and you possibly might spend your money on short term fixes, distractions and cover ups like I have done in my life and learnt the hard way!
If you want to change a habit, first we fire up the new neural pathways- then with practice wire them - this is HOPE!
Its all possible and easier than you imagine when you have a detailed map that shows you the way.
Embodiment means to feel more. To feel more means you have more of the picture. More of the picture means you are more informed with your decision.
In- decision is just that you know you're missing a main ingredient that is needed to know whats best.
Embodiment sessions create the rooted foundations for you to grow from to make your further decisions forward from a place of informed consent.
In fact, working with me will support you to trust in your decisions in every aspect of your life in and out of the bedroom.
This is your opportunity, as Jonathan Kay says, for “Getting out of the audience” and into the play of your real life!
I can successfully help you overcome fears of commitment but if they are too big, the decision making gets tiring.
“in-decision” is the biggest energy drain in our lives
It's best to decide on in-decision than stay in the limbo of it and accept that its just not the right time for you.
Play your body like a new instrument.
Embodiment is an investment that WILL change your life. I know this from the moments I found myself letting kindness in and felt the deep remorse from all the years I lived in disconnection, tolerating and indecision.